Love... A term thrown around so loosely, but it holds so much weight. We become so engrossed in it that we lose ourselves in the name of it. People often tell me that you will find love, you will find that one person who will treat you right, you will find the man of your dreams, and they always end it by saying, 'all in its time.' Yes, totally! Only Allah knows what we do not, and only He knows what is best for us. I sometimes get the impression people feel sorry for me beca

At times I feel helpless... Being a Counsellor is not an easy job at all and it often gets me questioning so many things and I often ask myself... Why is it okay for us as parents to invalidate our children and their emotions? Why is it okay for our religious leaders to pose as innocent beings but in secret they are addicted to porn and emotionally abuse their families? Why is it okay for husband and wife to stop talking to each other and live in separate rooms and then their

We repeat cycles when we do not learn our lessons... Have you ever experienced something that was so comforting but it was wrong? We...